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HIS & HERS WRAP BELTS

December 13, 2019 · Leave a Comment

Hello! Happy Friday! I wanted to take the time to talk about a trend I am loving right now before the holiday gift ideas posts.

With all the layering I like to break up the pieces with a belt. It helps create shape. I love these kinds of belts because you can dress them up and down.

I don’t see a lot of the guys out here in the midwest wearing nothing but a black or brown leather belt but I’d thought I’d still push it. There are some cool cheaper options below. Just start with black. LOL I don’t expect you to run around in my white belt like in the pictures (but it is a unisex belt).

So below I styled myself and my male model using the same belt. The belt is almost $100 off right now and you can find it here.

|| (BELT: OFF-WHITE) |( JUMPSUIT: SHOW ME YOUR MUMU) | (BOOTS: OLD DSW) ||

|(BELT: OFF-WHITE)|

HOW I GOT MY YEEZYS MARKET VALUE & HOW TO SCORE YOURS FOR THE UPCOMING RELEASES

December 12, 2019 · Leave a Comment

Hey! Happy Thursday. Last night I got yelled at by two Zara managers for trying returning an online item 1 day past their 30 return deadline. As much as a push for their product on here I’m going to say that their customer service sucks. I remember working my first holiday in retail as a manager….. ANYWAYSSSSSS…..

On that note let’s get back to sneakers. So I got the black Yeezy 350’s on black Friday (Yeezy Boost 350 V2 Black if you want to get specific pictured below). A lot of my friends weren’t as successful through Yeezy Supply, Dicks, Champs, Footlocker, etc.

I was successful because I signed up to participate through the Adidas raffle per the Adidas app. This post has no referral links or anything I just genuinely want to spread information that I wish I knew beforehand. I’m not into paying more than market value for tennis shoes. I already have a problem and don’t need to be paying extra.

STEP 1: DOWNLOAD APP (link here)

FIND THE SHOE THEN TAP PARTICIPATE THEN IT WILL MAKE YOU… Select the size you want (one per customer, also the sizing is in men’s. I am a men’s size 8. They run small)

STEP 2: JOIN THE CREATORS CLUB

basically that means put in all your info
they will ask you for your credit card information here

STEP 3: VERIFY YOUR ACCOUNT

STEP 4: ENABLE PUSH NOTIFICATIONS/ENABLE LOCATION SERVICES ON YOUR PHONE (this is important for you during the draw so they know that you are on during the draw)

….and maybe the draws depend on random selection to where you are located idk….?

REMEMBER YOU NEED TO BE AWAKE DURING THE DRAW. BOTH OF THESE RELEASES ARE ON SATURDAY MORNINGS.

MAKE SURE YOU GET THIS MESSAGE TO ENSURE REGISTRATION:

I get on the app thirty minutes prior just to be sure I am on and ready to go. On black Friday I was in the waiting room for less than an hour. I just watched HBO and had my app open the whole time.

UPCOMING RELEASES:

DEMEMBER 14 9 AM CST: YEEZREEL

DECEMEBER 20 9 AM CST: YECHEIL

I know this may seem like a lot for some, but I take my sneakers very seriously. It’s like collecting baseball cards.

TARGET CYBER PICKS

December 2, 2019 · Leave a Comment

This post is different from my Amazon post. If you didn’t catch it please read it before this post here.

This post on good old Target is more clothes heavy (but so so good). Not going to lie to you the men’s coats are HAPPENING. If you are a girl reading this post looking to buy her man a couple pieces to build on his wardrobe I got you. Or if you are a male looking for fairly priced coats … I… GOT. YOU. ALL THE COATS I HAVE IN THIS POST ARE UNDER $60. MOST OF THEM ARE IN THE $35 RANGE. THIS IS NOT A DRILL.

Target is offering another 15% to your total order at checkout to clothing items and on select electronics/ home appliances.

LET’S CYBER SHALL WE……

ALSO BEFORE WE START. If you are looking at the photos below and are thinking, “wow that guy looks small there is no way I can fit in that coat then.” I totally get that not every guy is a smhedium… no need to fret Target has a big and tall option for the items I listed. I list some of both below.

————— MENS CLOTHING —————

MEN’S PLAID LINED SHERPA SHIRT JACKET $25

Yoooo I’m buying this for myself….

GOODFELLOW & CO OLIVE BOMER

This bomber is $31.50 peeps. I want this for myself as well! Damn my fav color. (Comes in big and tall here).

SHERPA DENIM JACKET

A Target twist on the Levi’s original at a great price. Here is the big & tall option.

GOODFELLOW & CO PLAID FLANNEL

I’m obsessed with this shirt it’s 30 percent off. I also love this olive green colorway here. I’ve seen it in person and I’m buying it for my brother’s for Christmas (good thing they don’t read this lol).

GOODFELLOW & CO PLAID OVERCOAT 30 PERCENT OFF

Throw on a navy/grey/black hoodie underneath (instead of the half-zip below) and you are good to go. This coat could be cool. The photo doesn’t do it justice.

NAVY BOMBER JACKET WITH DETACHABLE FUR COLLAR

I need this coat too. The Target men’s always brings it with coat options. Just $35.

—————WOMEN’S CLOTHING —————

$25 LEOPARD HALF ZIP

Shout out to Janelle for helping me find this casual and comfy leopard ensemble. I love to throw this on after a workout with my black joggers. It’s so damn comfy. This half zip does run **really small. I bought an XXL because I wanted it to be oversized.

—————HOME & KITCHEN —————

CUISINART 7 QT. ELECTRIC MULTI-COOKER $100 OFF

A little bit more expensive than the Instapot that I mentioned in my Amazon cyber finds, but if you are a label person Cusiniart is a great brand and you can deck your whole kitchen out with their products if you are matchy matchy.

BLACK AND WHITE HORSE FRAMED CANVAS 30 PERCENT OFF

I am obsessed with this canvas print. I’ve been in the market for a horse photo for my room for awhile – well one that’s not overpriced. This one is perfect for your horse crazy friend or modern farmhouse styled friend’s home.

————— ELECTRONICS —————

CANNON DSLR EOS T6 LENS KIT BUNDLE 47 PERCENT OFF HERE.

$100 OFF THE 7TH GEN 10.2-INCH IPAD

MISS ATOMIC BRUNETTE/ HIS AND HERS FASHION BLOG IS A PARTICIPANT IN THE TARGET AFFILIATES PROGRAM, AN AFFILIATE ADVERTISING PROGRAM DESIGNED TO PROVIDE A MEANS FOR SITES TO EARN ADVERTISING FEES BY ADVERTISING AND LINKING TO TARGET.COM.

AMAZON CYBER MONDAY PICKS

December 2, 2019 · Leave a Comment

Hey hi all. I am keeping this short and sweet, but first I want to say that I hope that everyone had a happy Thanksgiving. It’s my favorite holiday period. I am an avid Blackfridaysmallbusinesssatcybermonday shopper. I have been on the other side of it too. I have worked Thanksgiving nights into black friday in retail in the past and I am a firm believer that if the deal isn’t 30 percent or above its not really a “deal.” I say this every year. Don’t be fooled.

I will have another post devoted to Target deals you can find it here. Happy cyber monday shopping! Let’s get it!

————— ELECTRONICS —————

APPLE MACBOOK AIR $350 OFF

NIXON BODY D7500 DX-FORMAT DIGITAL SLR BODY $450 OFF

———— HOME & KITCHEN ————-

DYSON BISSELL 50 PERCENT OFF

NINJA BLENDER $30 OFF

INSTA POT $75 OFF

This very item has been sitting in my cart. I’ve always wanted this and it’s a 7 in 1 multi-cooker meaning – it combines 7 Appliances in one: pressure cooker, slow cooker, rice cooker, steamer, sauté pan, yogurt maker and warmer.

NESPRESSO VERTUO COFFEE & ESPRESSO MACHINE BUNDLE $167 OFF

GUYS! I just bought this on Friday. I am so so so so so excited for my Nespresso! I bought this same one and it comes with a frothier (hot and cold).

KITCHEN AID + FOOD GRINDER ATTACHMENT $124 OFF

JBL CHARGE 3 PORTABLE SPEAKER $59 OFF

This is my favorite speakers out there. The sound gets just high enough and it’s also waterproof in case I need it poolside.

————— BEAUTY —————

REVLON HOT AIR BRUSH 30 PERCENT OFF

I haven’t used this myself because of my extensions, but I have heard nothing but good things about it. I just used it on my mom on Thanksgiving and it was really time efficient.

CLARISONIC SET $50 OFF

I’ve always wanted one of these. All beauty people swear by it. This is a great gift. I think there is also a head you can buy to apply makeup. (future me found it and had to list it below 🙂 )

CLARISONIC MAKEUP BRUSH HEAD 31 PERCENT OFF

Here’s the makeup head. If my boyfriend/husband got me this and the other set above. Man oh man. Props.

————— CLOTHING —————

LEVI’S 501 JUST $41

A good price for a staple. I have been loving Levi’s lately for men and myself. I like an in between jean that I won’t be afraid to ruin you know…?

LEVI’S THE WEDGIE JEANS $39

I swear by this fit. I always love this washed out black. I have the solid black, but I prefer this one and hello for this price. This is definitely in my cart as we speak.

MISS ATOMIC BRUNETTE/ HIS AND HER’S FASHION BLOG IS A PARTICIPANT IN THE AMAZON AFFILIATES PROGRAM, AN AFFILIATE ADVERTISING PROGRAM DESIGNED TO PROVIDE A MEANS FOR SITES TO EARN ADVERTISING FEES BY ADVERTISING AND LINKING TO AMAZON.COM.

HOW TO WEAR WHITE SHOES FOR FALL + WINTER – HIS

November 21, 2019 · Leave a Comment

Hi. If you haven’t read my small post from the other day you can find it here. I couldn’t possibly address that matter and move on to talk about clothes and fashion. Things have still been bugging me mentally about it. I know I live far away from my hometown and haven’t lived there for quite some time, but I know a handful of people who had a family member there. After reading different social media posts from survivors, texts that they have sent their loved ones and this video I am so proud to call Santa Clarita my home. I’m proud that in this dark time they can come together and help those families that are in need.

The parents of Gracie Muehlberger wrote a personal letter for the Saugus Strong Vigil, which was held Sunday night. There is a gofundme account for Gracie to memorialize their daughter you can find the link here.

Today I am talking about one of my favorite trends….. WHITE SHOES. Sneakers specifically. FOR HIM and how to wear them from fall to winter.

I’m not talking about wearing your white chucks and grey sweatpants that you wear after the gym or on Sunday’s. I’m talking about adding a white shoe to your formal wear and elevated casual looks. I love this trend so much because it’s most definitely a street wear thing.

A lot of you guys think that white is a summer shoe, but you can wear them with anything…whether it’s corduroy pants, a blazer and jeans, twill pants (colored pants in men’s terms), or with your blue suit after work for meeting up with drinks with the guys… etc.

WHERE TO YOU START – Start by adding a white shoe with your blue blazer, fitted jeans and a button down white shirt. Then keep trying different things the more… and more comfortable you get. Like an all black look with white sneaks…. yes. Top that with a leather jacket.

|| (PHOTOS BY ME) | (SHOES: CONVERSE JACK PURCELL) ||

I can’t even tell you how sexy it is when I see a guy wearing a suit with white shoes. It’s like an understated statement. It says I mean business but I like to take a little risk with getting these white shoes. Maybe I’m getting literal but I’d like to get to know that guy.

FOR THE MORE CASUAL GUYS NOT INTO WEARING SUITS OUT – That’s totally fine. Start with a fitted pair of jeans, a nice jacket (maybe a bomber/fitted jacket) a white shirt and white sneaks. That’s a perfect first date outfit for this time of the year.

Below I styled this guy white a twill pant, white tee and white sneakers. I’d throw a dark blue bomber to complete the look.

||(PHOTOS: BY ME) | (SHOESS: VANS) ||

IF YOU ARE DEBATING BETWEEN A LEATHER OR CANVAS SHOE – The first rule of white shoes is there are no rules with white shoes. It doesn’t matter. You already know for myself I have both because I wear white shoes religiously. Start out with the cheaper canvas then invest in a leather pair. Below the vans are a good start.

OTHER WHITE SHOES I RECOMMEND:

A WORD.

November 18, 2019 · Leave a Comment

I have to take a minute right away and address something. This past Thursday there was a shooting at one of my high schools. (I went to two high schools.) I had the pleasure of going to Saugus High School for two and a half years. There I made many happy memories on the volleyball team and in the classroom. I never felt unsafe there or uncomfortable or anything negative. I truly felt myself there. My Oklahoma high school was great, but Saugus is home for me. A lot of firsts there for me.

After waking up to a flood of texts I was shocked that something like that happened in a place where I felt the most safe. That could have been me…

I am the type of student that edits until the last minute. I would sometimes walk to school and edit my papers to the very last minute edit because I am such a perfectionist, then reprint them off on campus before my first class. The shooting took place in the morning in the quad. People were walking to class. That could have been me. That could have been a friend. That could have been anybody. Teachers are getting ready for work. Parents are dropping off kids. My best friend’s dad was there dropping off his girlfriend’s daughter.

I am absolutely sick and saddened by what happened. My heart goes out to the victims and the families, teachers, students, parents and community that this event has affected in Santa Clarita.

I thought to myself, “wow this really hit close to home..” but IT DID HIT HOME. THAT’S MY HOME. Someone came into my home and tarnished it and my family that lives there. Please do not become desensitized about this until it does hit home. I am so mad at myself for not writing about this sooner and speaking out about my opinion on the matter. I try to be as biased as I can because I was taught to write that way as a journalist and working for a paper…BUT THIS IS MY PERSONAL BLOG AND WEBSITE. I don’t know what needs to happen, but some kind of reform needs to be addressed…. talked about more… and more so we can affect change. I don’t typically dive into social issues on here – but something has got to give.

According to NBC News, Law enforcement sources said at least six firearms found at the home belonged to the suspect’s deceased father.

The definition of insanity according to Albert Eisenstein is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Let’s all do something different.

HOW I OPTIMIZED /RECYCLED MY BASICS I ALREADY OWNED FOR ACL & HOW YOU CAN TOO FOR FALL

October 11, 2019 · Leave a Comment

It’s FINALLY fall here in the midwest. I am coming off a “musically refreshed” weekend. I can’t even tell you how therapeutic live music is to me. I know I sound like a hippie, but go support your fellow creatives and see the people you love live. I feel like I already said the exact same thing for my Coachella post… but I’M GOING TO SAY IT AGAIN CAROLL.

I had about an hour to pack for Austin City Limits (ACL). Beforehand I already decided that I wanted to achieve a 90’s grunge look one day with my Doc Martens and a western look for the other day because I found this fun fringe jacket. I just didn’t know how I was going to execute them. I wanted to gauge how hot it was going to be first.

Packing for me was so easy because I just packed my basics that I can dress up (my black slip dress + white bodysuit + denim shorts). Then I threw in my cowboy boots, jewelry, western hat and toiletries and I was good to go.

YOUR SIMPLE OUTFIT EQUATION FOR THIS FALL.

BASIC + STATEMENT JACKET/COAT + BOOTS = FALL OUTFIT

The basics can be a slip dress, cotton dress, jeans and a tee, bodysuit etc. Just change out your jacket and boots and there you have another look.

Below are my two looks for ACL.

|| (DRESS – ZARA) |(NECKLACE – JENNY BIRD) | (BOOTS – DR. MARTEN’S) ||

|| (JACKET – ZARA) | NECKLACE – JENNY BIRD) | (TOP – AGOLDE) | (SHORTS – AGOLDE) (BOOTS – REBECCA MINKOFF (OLD) SIMILAR PAIR HERE) ||

I just packed my bags again and I did the same thing for my upcoming California trip. I actually layer a lot with sweatshirts and long sleeves when I’m out here bc jackets aren’t a necessity here (yes I’m here now I can’t catch a break on the weekends. Congrats on your wedding Emily if you are reading this!) I packed all my neutral slip dresses and I am layering them with sweatshirts when the temperature drops here. It’s hot here you guys!

Would you guys be into a his/hers packing list for fall? Is that lame? I don’t know… that’s something I personally would love to read! Let me know. And BOOMER!

SHOP SOME OF THE ITEMS BELOW:

Jenna

EASY NEUTRAL BODYSUITS TO TRANSITION INTO FALL

September 23, 2019 · Leave a Comment

Hi guys just coming back from a weekend in Vegas for my birthday and I am ready to get back to being productive. People say this all the time but three days is plenty for Vegas… and it damn sure is.

To clear the air with what you are thinking I know that every blogger is saying _______ to transition into fall. LOL! I follow a blogger in LA and she was talking about white bathing suits to transition into fall. That’s where I draw the line Karen.

There is one thing she and I have in common with Caren above and that’s sticking to white, black, tan, grey aka the basics to “transition” into “fall.” Whether it is shoes, shirts, boots, that’s a must and I’ll get more into detail about that in later posts.

Now that the weather is actually “changing” and my allergies are out of whack I deem it the appropriate time to talk about transitional pieces.

CUE IN BODYSUITS.

You can wear them with skirts, jeans, trousers, etc. Just throw on a blazer and hey… you have a work appropriate outfit.

I am in love with THIS BODYSUIT. Out of all the ones I ordered in my Amazon haul this is my favorite and it’s only $17. For size reference I ordered a medium.

I just paired it with my favorite pair of Levi’s (this rib cage high rise one is the best fitting jean that actually hugs my waist and booty like none other before) and threw my silver chain on top to match the buttons on the tank because I am a matchy matchy pyscho.

SHOP THE POST BELOW:

Here is another cheap option from Zara that I walked by in store last week and wish I had purchased.

More content coming this week and I am pushing for Tuesday’s and Thursday’s to be THE DAYS my posts get out. As for the guys here (if any)….. there will be Men’s on the way!

Happy Monday!

Jenna

MY 8 FAVORITE HEALTHY FOOD BUYS ON AMAZON AND HOW I DELICOUSLY CONSUME THEM

August 25, 2019 · Leave a Comment

***DISCLAIMER – I’m not a food/health/diet food expert. I’m not on a diet and never will be. I just like to eat: REAL. CLEAN. PRODUCTS. Did I mention that I LIKE TO EAT? I grew up with boys… so I had to eat before they ate everything in the pantry. I continue that today… but with healthier options so it all balances out all chocolate and tequila that I consume.

I also am a creature of habit. If you know me… you know I generally eat the same 5 things. I’ll switch up dressings here and there or sides… but I like consistency with food.

Green Superfood Powder:

So you don’t have time to eat veggies? No problem. Some days… me neither. It’s hard to eat vegetables on days when you are constantly on the go. I toss this into my fruit smoothies on the busier days when I know I don’t have time to eat/prep a quality meal… so I don’t feel so bad about the tequila I drink(s) later 🙂

The flavor below is the exact one I buy. I haven’t tried the others (the other flavors don’t sound appetizing to me.) I don’t mix this into my post workout peanut butter and chocolate smoothies. I just use this in my berry fruit smoothie recipe for taste. (If you want specifics – I mix blueberries + strawberries + peanut butter + almond milk + this + 1 bitted date + sometimes a couple ice cubes if too thick = then I’m set.)

There is no vegetable taste in my smoothie if you are wondering! It’s masked by the other ingredients. You can also drink this by mixing it into water or juice – but that doesn’t sound appetizing to me.

SOYBEAN/CANOLA OIL FREE DRESSING:

A dressing that doesn’t have any oils that are terrible for you! (I.E. soybean oil, canola oil, etc.) The avocado lime ranch from Chick-fil-A is obviously my favorite but is packed with tons of fat and highly processed ingredients like above that cause serious inflammation. If you ever want to know look at the label lol. The biggest “dupe” for the Chick-fil-A one is THIS PRIMAL KITCHEN ONE ABOVE. I love it! I make grilled veggies on the stove in one pan… then grill black bean burgers in the other pan or left over chicken.. depending on my mood. Then I mix all in a salad bowl and top it with my dairy-free cheese and there you have dinner or lunch in less than 15 MIN.

DIARY-FREE COFFEE CREAMER:

This is such an awesome dairy-free creamer! It’s a great alternative to half and half or heavy cream without having to run to the bathroom. PRO-TIP: use a frother with this then add cinnamon on top. There you have a Starbucks quality drink that is diary free and with no sugar!

DIARY-FREE CREAM CHEESE:

THIS CREAM CHEESE IS BOMB.COM. I dip my carrots in this. I use it as a spread (instead of mayo) on my wraps. I use on top of crackers. The list goes on and on. My favorite is the everything bagel cream cheese from Kite Hill. It’s out of stock on Amazon, but you can also get at Whole Foods. Another pro-tip of mine is I add the everything bagel seasoning (below) on top of it for an extra salty fix when I’m feeling a salty craving. Probably not the greatest but so so so so so good.

SEASONING:

There are not enough good things I can say about this seasoning. It’s another way to help me eat my vegetables and it’s also delicious on top of salmon. I add this to my riced cauliflower and/or green beans. Another way I use it is on top of my salad to give it an extra salty kick and crunch. Lastly, I will use it on my wraps and I’ll even add it to a plain hummus.

TORTILA CHIPS:

I eat Mexican food every other day. This is not an exaggeration. This is me. It’s easy and I find it superb. I am either making a taco salad or tacos. I haven’t been eating a lot of bread or grains and that has been possible with the help of Siete Family Foods. These are so delicious! I even eat these with hummus. Sometimes I will smash a couple and add them to my taco salad for something crunchy in my salad. I also love their tortillas (also grain free), queso and bean dip! I manly use their tortillas for wraps and tacos! They are another must buy!

FRUIT SNACKS:

So. I have a serious problem with fruit snacks. I have loved them since day one. Then when I realized what all fruit snacks are made up of gelatin – a yellowish, odorless, and nearly tasteless substance that is made by prolonged boiling of skin, cartilage, and bones from animals. I began to buy organic fruit snacks. After a year search of double checking fruit snack labels and throwing my money at different ones I found these Yum Earth fruit snacks. I find myself craving these all the time and they have a banana flavored fruit snack in the pack and they are always the first gone in the pouch! They are the pink Starburst of fruit snacks lol!

PERFECT BAR:

Meet your newest obsession. You can thank me later. I saved the best for last with this one and I’ve hope you’ve read down to here. I always say, “Don’t talk to me until I’ve had my coffee and my Perfect bar.” I eat one every day with my cup of Joe. It sets the tone for my day. I don’t know if this is a healthy obsession or not, but I LOVE THEM SO MUCH! My favorite flavor is the peanut butter and dark chocolate chip. I’ve tried the other flavors… they don’t amount to it! I’ve tried a lot of other protein bars they don’t amount to it! It tastes just like cookie dough and I love how its refrigerated. They are perfect on the go when I am working and I don’t have time to cook a proper meal.

If you just want to try them first before committing to buying a value pack no problem! You can find them in singles at Starbucks and in the refrigerator by the milk at Target.

If you want to try any of these they are mostly told at Whole Foods, Trader Joe’s or a Kroger like grocery store! I wrote this because I would love to read something like this and I hope it serves you as well! Comment below on your healthy staples that I’ve missed. The more the merrier!

JENNA

HOW TO ADD A TOUCH OF LINGERIE TO SPICE UP YOUR WARDROBE

August 12, 2019 · Leave a Comment

HI. Yes, we’ve all been here. Those days where nothing is looking good. Those days where you try on every outfit combination possible in your closet and your mans (or girl) is waiting on you and getting more annoyed by the minute so he probably won’t compliment you about your look because he’s hangry (and his compliment is the only one who can salvage the situation). I know long run-on sentence… but as usual… I digress.

I’m wrapping up my posts that are only directed towards women seeing as I want to be a resource for men and women (His and Her’s Fashion Blog). That doesn’t mean I won’t write posts like this ever again…. but I thought I’d conclude the Miss Atomic Brunette series up with a bang… a how to – more specifically – ” how to add a touch of lingerie to spice up your wardrobe.” (HI MOM AND DAD GO AHEAD AND SKIP OVER THIS ONE PLEASE! LOVE YOU!)

A quick update on me (“I HAVE A POINT. I PROMISE.” ELLE WOODS VOICE). I contemplated putting this post on here because I like to stay positive on here, but I’m hoping that my case can impact someone in a positive way. I went to the ER about a week ago for dehydration caused by vertigo. I always have sinus infections because of my allergies out here in the dirty south. I quickly learned that I wasn’t able to stand up without getting dizzy and/or throwing up. To use the bathroom or get water I had to close my eyes to prevent myself from getting sick. I couldn’t look at my phone or even look at the ceiling. I was so scared to get out of bed and may have prolonged going to the doctor longer than I should of have.

Fast forward to my roommate helping me go to the ER and getting the fluids and medicine I needed. During my six-hour period there after a series of blood work, MRI’S and peeing in a cup I learned that I need to keep up with cleaning my inner ears (not with a Q-tip!) or I will get vertigo. I told them I thought it was my ears from the start lol!

I brought up this story because right now I don’t feel quite myself. I am not able to workout. I feel a lot slower than I normally am (mentally). Nothing tastes good to me food wise. I just had a snack bag of cheese-its (my favorite)…. and they were…blase. WTF like my ultimate comfort food?! I feel fat. I don’t feel sexy.

So what do I do in moments like these? I put on my feminine pieces that make me proud to be a lady. LOL AND THE GUYS THOUGHT LINGERIE WAS ONLY FOR THEM… There is nothing I love more than feeling feminine and sexy in my own skin. Sometimes we need to wear beautiful feminine things to remind us just that. Now I know I’m not reinventing the wheel here, but a lot of us have this in our closets already and we don’t need to wear it just to please someone else.

Now I shot these looks before my ER stint… HOWEVER tonight at dinner I will adding a “touch” of lingerie to my outfit. What I mean by a “touch” is wearing a bodysuit/”teddy” or bralette as a top to complete my look. The sheer pieces I add bralettes/bras underneath.

If you are older reading this and not deeming it age appropriate or lingerie is simply too bold for you? No problem! Add a sexy silk top underneath your blazer with lace (yes that’s still sleepwear hunny) or a slip dress and top it with a blazer or leather jacket for date night!

SLIP DRESS OPTIONS:

OTHER SILK TOP OPTIONS:

BELOW ARE MY LOOKS.

|| (Photos: Katie Pickens Photography) | (Blazer: Zara similar option here)| (Top: Flora Nikrooz (size M)|(Jeans: Levi’s)| (Shoes: Steve Madden)||

HERE IS $35 WHITE LACE BODYSUIT THAT IS SIMILAR TO ABOVE! Another $46 option.

I’m NOT saying wear this to work at your nine to five and show your nipples. I’m saying add a touch to your date night outfit (or in my case girls night outfit) in a tasteful way underneath a blazer or something at night time.

Click here for another cute teddy option for $19.90!